hot tip: if you’re nonbinary and spend a night at a hostel, do not pick the mixed gender room. i know it sounds like the obvious choice, i did too, but please do take five seconds to think about who the majority of people choosing the mixed gender room would be.
hostel, not hotel. hostels are much cheaper but you share the room with like 3 strangers
either the men’s or women’s, depends whether you wanna risk dudes being dudes, or having to put up with a terf, both of which seem less likely than weirdos in the mixed gender room