I’m continuing to make this public because this person continues to lie and defame me, as well as make some pretty heinous false accusations about people I know.

For context, please check the Pelago link in the root post of the thread.

I doubt they’re done on the fediverse, but they’re making themselves cozy on Bsky, namedropping, defaming and spreading disinformation over there now!

In the case that they re-appear on Fedi, you should not trust or interact with this person. They will try to take advantage of you, and if you attempt to call them on their behaviour, they will turn around and attempt to defame you. Typical DARVO routine.

Me and others have tried to privately handle this with the person in question on numerous occasions, and they flat out refuse to take any responsibility for their actions, despite overwhelming evidence.

Instance admins: If you have a suspicious signup request, I’m happy to discuss and share further info such as their known IPs to determine if it’s them. DO NOT TRUST THEM. DO NOT INTERACT. They have gone as far as suicide threats and emotional manipulation to try and get evidence removed from Pelago.

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@maddy wow

just wow

@gen I fucking KNEW this one was trouble.

@maddy yeah, it’s to no end either

@maddy @gen i gave her the benefit of the doubt at first because language barrier or something. but what flipped me was her saying she had her cousin name a dog after me or something. like thanks but ive only spoken to you once

and that interaction was her asking for an account on my instance, me telling her i dont know her well enough for that and recommending some larger sharkey instances that werent absturztaube. to which she said she had tfs blocked because of accusations by woem.men. i flipped out at her a little for believing them over tfs and she ghosted me irrc? then later posted a thing about how woem is bad actually. spineless

@maddy damn i wish they hated the fediverse enough to just stay away from it

@maddy y’know, i used to think not too long ago that i was some horrible piece of shit that deserved nobody, but then there’s people like that and i’m like Wow.

and i’m not perfect either, don’t get me wrong, but holy fucking shit this is next fucking level

@maddy Was the poster misgendering you (they/them pronouns to refer to you) on purpose? If so ewww, I'm sorry. (this whole situation looks like a mess and I'm sorry you're going through it in general, but that particular thing jumped out at me since I don't really know all of the background/details of the situation)

We can only hope, but we know it won’t last.

#JadeChimera

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@maddy “again” lolololol

@maddy one of her recent posts says “I’ll be blocking people who allow people to leave this platform”

Which like

What the fuck does that even mean? You’re gonna block people who “allow” others to leave bsky? What?

@thatgalsilver that broken phrasing and grammar on such a short post is how you can tell almost all of their longer posts are AI/LLM assisted. This is how they actually write, and their longer posts read nothing like that.

@maddy "You mean the dramas you start yourself? That drama?"

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Heads-up that they’re now kairu (at) chaos.social

Regarding their pinned post: Yes, you do. I really don’t want to have to refer to this post in an ironic manner in the near future. You can stop this at any time if you put in the effort.

#JadeChimera

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@maddy

I was gonna say...holy shit they're right just once.
Now if only it sticks this time.

If your perception is anything like this, you just might be missing the whole picture, a lot of which I’ve conveniently laid out here in this thread!

I’ve given them plenty of chances to stop with this nonsense. I’ve backed off just to find that I’m the subject of their latest slop-laden hit piece, a day or two after their latest slop-laden apology, no less.

Between the emotional manipulation, DARVO playbook on repeat, and fake suicide threats, I’ve lost any and all patience for them.

Until they re-appear on the fediverse without the same toxic traits, to the point that I can’t even identify them as this same person, I will keep paying attention, and keep warning others.

Believe me, the more you learn, the less you feel sorry for them. You really shouldn’t either, because they will prey on that.

#JadeChimera

It honestly feels like shit that I even have to defend myself and keep convincing myself I’m not the bad guy in this situation amidst active abuse from this abuser.

If you’re going to question why I’m doing this, AT LEAST look through the mountain of evidence before doing so. It should answer a lot of your questions for you.

If you still think I’m an asshole despite all that, fair enough.
I can only hope that they don’t do the same shit to you if you’re mutuals, suddenly realize their pattern of toxicity, and then cut them off.

@maddy whoever has called u out for harassing them is either clueless or lazy.

We spent a lot of time watching, discussing with other modmins, and considering what to do before we decided to permanently ban them. Even then, we offered them one last chance to reform...

...which they like, used to bash us where they thought we would not see. That doesn't bother us, but it does show that they are legit just here to start drama. We're not sure if they're compelled to do so or they just enjoy it, but we're not interested in offering them an audience.

They are not a victim. They just enjoy cosplaying one on the fedi.

Of course.

OF COURSE they can’t stop being a shit-disturber for a single day.

“drama and legal issues Maddy caused”
Look in the mirror, bozo.

“I have refrained from publishing my document”
Do it, coward.

“I received the email Maddy sent and will stop spreading misinformation”
A) I never sent shit through email ‘cause you never use the same one, and
B) You’re literally spreading misinformation right now

I like how Mastodon has this handy feature that shows what kind of client is being used. Usually this wouldn’t matter, but you can see they’re using a client called “Fedica”, which is a service for (scheduled) publishing, platform analytics and growth, which makes this feel especially gross.

It seems that they have not lost their burning desire to have hundreds of thousands of followers, at any cost. This is not healthy.

At this point, I’m risking followers trying to raise awareness and warn about this one, and though I’m not happy about it, I feel like I have to say something ‘cause nobody else is.

You wanna be fedi famous? If you keep going down this road, you’ll be dav1d famous, and that’s not a good thing.

#JadeChimera

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I have never reached out via email, and since this DM I sent, I’ve only ever communicated to them publicly, either with direct (public) replies, or additions to this thread, responding to their lies and bs.

This was about their blog posts making up nonsense about how a fellow admin is a groomer, how me and my instance are toxic and bad, etc. I only ever meant the blog posts with defamatory contents, and I made that clear in our interactions, since that’s the most actionable of anything they’ve posted.

https://kairu.bearblog.dev/i-really-just-want-this-to-be-over/
Linking, but also attaching a PDF of the version that I’m responding to, in case they make edits.

“I’m trying to do better with how I act online. But apparently that means I have to sit here and accept every accusation thrown at me? No. That’s not how this works.”

If you’re trying to do better with how you act online, you need to SHOW it, not just say you’re doing better. You continue to show that nothing has changed, as recently as the last 24 hours.

If you want me to stop paying attention, don’t make it such that I can pick you out of a crowd for the exact same shifty behaviour, the same lies, the same defamatory bullshit, the same DARVO playbook.

“I have talked about the Discord DM where I understood that she was threatening to contact the company my father works for, Access Communications, to try to get me off the internet.”

I never talked to you on Discord (another lie), and I’m not sure why you’re offering information like that, but I’m sure your father would be very disappointed in your continued actions if they were aware. I still intend to report abuse to your ISP because that’s what you’re doing - abusing the service you have been provided, despite numerous chances to turn things around. I’ve had more than enough, and you’ve pushed my patience over the edge long ago. You don’t just get to make shit up about someone being a groomer because you’re upset with them and post it publicly without consequences.

“And then there’s the accusation thread. If you haven’t read it, here’s the link:

https://thegayagenda.fans/notes/ar6bkpi8bw1g025h

Read it yourself. Seriously. Don’t just read someone’s summary of it and decide you know everything. Don’t just believe whoever has the bigger audience or whoever is louder about it.”

Yes, please do, I encourage anyone to read through. And I agree - don’t just believe whoever has the bigger audience or who is louder. Use your critical thinking skills, and come to your own conclusions.

“From my perspective, there have been misleading claims about me, and I believe this whole thing has been kept alive because people keep getting something out of it.”

You’re misleading everyone about yourself with how you change personas and identities every fortnight, and you seem to be the one getting off from all this. I really don’t understand it.

“I have a blog. I have websites. I have things I want to make. I have a life outside of this. I want to write about anime, my projects, random things that happen during the day, whatever. I want to be able to post something without wondering if someone is going to twist it into another argument.”

Then stop making shit up about folks and posting defamatory hit pieces. Stop adding to the drama by twisting the facts.

“I’ve been trying to move forward. I really have. But it’s hard when people keep bringing the same stuff back up.”

You’re trying to move on? Could’ve fooled me. Quit playing the victim - YOU are the one that won’t let this die.

“I want to move on. I want to stop thinking about Maddy.”

Believe me, I want to stop thinking about you too. I want to stop worrying that I’m going to be the next one called a groomer by you, just because I’ve upset you.

Tl;dr - Take some responsibility for your actions once in your life, and fuck off with the victim complex.

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#JadeChimera

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“I’m so sorry!”
“I need to stop with the drama”
“This person needs to be stopped!”
[repeat]

Yeah, the irony of this pinned post right above their latest post is not at all lost on me.

#JadeChimera

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@maddy this whole thing is so bizarre! sorry you have to deal with this

As some of us may have learned from The Office (U.S.), you can’t just declare bankruptcy, as in, verbally claiming that you’re declaring bankruptcy without taking any steps. There’s a process.

Much like declaring bankruptcy, it takes effort on your part to leave the drama besides just saying you’ve done so, especially when you’ve stoked the flames within hours of saying “I left the drama”

#JadeChimera

@maddy@thegayagenda.fans

It is truly hilarious how easy it would be for this person to stop all of this.

Commit to one account, one continuous identity. You don't even have to mention you were ever here before. Start making the things you supposedly want to make. And stop being an asshole to other people.

If they are truly done with the drama, why do they keep publicly wing-dragging about it and namedropping involved parties? Every installation in every thread, every website has been reactive to things they do. If they truly stopped, nothing would happen and we could all move on with our lives. And they'd probably get an audience for their work, too, since it's much easier to gain an audience when you have one stable place where people can go to find you/your work. It's how the rest of us do it.

@wolfwalks EXACTLY!

Instead, they’ve been performing this cycle, getting a little nastier each time, since ~2024. I’m just the latest person to call them on their shit and stick with it, so now I’m a target.

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I used to pity them because I thought they were young, but like. This isn't my first Fedi account. I just don't connect it to my other/previous accounts. I don't even mention who or where I was most of the time. It's truly that easy. It seems to me like they jump from place to place so quickly they have nothing holding them in any given spot, so why not recreate yourself in your desired image?

@wolfwalks It’s like they don’t want to give up on the small but loyal following they’ve had so far, so they want to make sure that they know they’re the same person.

Unless someone is calling them on their shit says they’re the same person, then they’re definitely not.

They’ve said numerous times since their beginnings on fedi that they really want hundreds of thousands of followers, lots of boosts, tell your friends, etc.

I’m not the only one to have negative encounters with this one, especially regarding their ignorance of boundaries. Speaking of, I was given explicit permission to share this.

JC (nora_mira, NicholasTheSaver, Kirazune, and lilythelonelygirl at the time) disrespected the boundaries of another with their TheNorthernTimes(at)calckey.world account (which, despite their claims is/was solely run by them), and was DM’d about it.

This was from Oct 2025, and they have clearly learned nothing since. Especially telling with the “Yeah, uh-huh, for sure. Y’all should boost this post so I can get more attention!” (paraphrasing)

#JadeChimera

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@maddy @wolfwalks wait, they have a following? I would have been fed up with this after only one or two weeks.

@Weirdaholic @wolfwalks There’s at least a dozen or so of the same users that keep following (back) their new accounts.

I’m sure some of that can be attributed to account migrations pulling them along, but yeah.

Anyway, I hope you feel that even a fraction of the above is enough to justify blocking this miserable and dishonest piece of work.

kairu(at)chaos.social and kairu(at)woof.tech are their most recent accounts, and they have been seen recently active on one of their older accounts, mikavenn(at)hear-me.social

If they re-appear on the fediverse without the same pattern of behaviour, referring to their old accounts, stirring drama unnecessarily, or defamatory and libelous posts, I’d consider that a reset worthy of treating like any other stranger on this platform without prior history, and I probably wouldn’t recognize them as the same person, but until then…

#JadeChimera #FediBlock

They went less than 19 hours before re-activating their BlueSky account. Now I’m just waiting to see what shit flinging comes next.
Chances are, it’s gonna be to share that blog post or yet another hit piece of sorts.
Maybe they’re about to change their handle to try and hide and then start the cycle all over again.

Yes, this is a minor thing - I’m just trying to keep track of inconsistencies and lies, of which there have been many.

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#JadeChimera

@maddy “I’m trying to move on” rings as hollow as “I’m done with Fedi” when they continue the same bullshit tactics and constantly bring up the “drama” they themselves are causing and try to pin it on others.

@thatgalsilver Right? I don’t understand how anyone is falling for this bullshit innocent act.

@maddy I said it before but when I first saw them active on their “Shonk” instance I genuinely believed their statement that they just wanted to do good for Fedi. Then in less than 72 hours they were constantly dipping their toes into drama that they then complained they didn’t want to be a part of. That was a major sign to me that the “I want to do good for Fedi” thing was not what it seemed.

@thatgalsilver Hooo yeah. What they say and what they do don’t line up, almost ever.

And I know I’m not great at moderation, but holy shit, they have no business on the fediblock tag, or moderating a multi-user instance.

I can’t go a single evening without this one seeking out the drama they supposedly wish so badly to end. More like, they want me to turn my brain off, stop paying attention, and stop calling them out.

Also, this has gotta be the quickest I’ve seen them yeeted from an instance. Account was less than an hour old before the instance admin realized “Oh hell no” and gave them the boot. Good call!

#JadeChimera

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Exhibit B: Jade "talking to themselves".

Just when you thought you've seen everything, it gets even more unhinged.

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I was going to leave them be if they were going to stop stirring the pot, but here we are…

So they fled to a previously unknown account from a previous persona less than a day after throwing themselves under the bus in a dramatic act to hold themselves accountable for their actions by pretending to be their sibling and calling them out, then deleting said account less than an hour after it was made.

Now they’re back to playing the victim while simultaneously saying they’re moving on from the drama when they clearly have not.

Again, leaving the drama requires effort on your part further than just saying you’re doing/you’ve done so.

Yes, I am happily reaching out to your ISP’s abuse contact due to your continued abuse. They may not even cut you off. They may not do anything at all. Guess we’ll find out!

#JadeChimera

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@maddy "over a decade" is a new one

@niko I’ve personally only been paying attention since Jan of this year, and I’m only aware of their accounts and presence going back to ~2023.

If they’ve been insufferable like this for over a decade, then holy fuck.

I don’t think you know how to actually take responsibility for your actions.

What about the emotional manipulation? You never acknowledge that - or the fake dramatic suicides of past personas, or accusing people both shitty and innocent of being groomers when it’s blatantly untrue?

Every time you do shit like that, and continue to lie and be dishonest, you trivialize those struggles, but primarily, yours.

If you ever actually personally deal with those issues while you’re continuing this routine of yours, who should believe you?
I don’t like you, but I don’t want it to ever come to that. I don’t want people getting hurt.

You’ve done so much damage to others’ ability to trust you, and from what I’ve seen and experienced, I don’t believe for a second you’re serious about coming clean, and that you’re only really upset on being called on your shit, just like every other time.

You want to be left alone? You truly want to move on from this? Cut the shit. Try and be genuine for once in your life.

#JadeChimera

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I guess avoiding lies and shit-disturbing was too boring for you, eh?

Yet another persona abandoned (SakuraGarden, Kairu), and right back at it. What is this, your fourth real name?

I’m also curious how you got over 100 threatening emails when you constantly rotate through disposable email addresses for instance, blog, and github signups, and I haven’t seen it posted publicly anywhere this time.

If you’re being harassed (and not just being called out for your sketchy behaviour), I’d say its worthwhile for you to call it out and shame those who are doing so.
Though you’ve really done an excellent job of muddying the truth - it’s impossible to know what you say is real and what isn’t.

#JadeChimera

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Alicia and Ashley, both are Canadian nicknames.

Firstly, they're conflating 'Canadian' with English and secondly, they're not nicknames, they're actual names (and how is "Alicia" or "Ashley" short for "Fern"). They missed the point completely of what a nickname is.

This is especially funny to me ‘cause CatSalad has been infinitely more forthcoming about all their accounts than JC ever has.

#JadeChimera

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Also, I wanted to say that I love the banner! Seen it before on other accounts of yours, and I’ve felt a similar sentiment on occasion.

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Oh interesting, both that quote post and the list are gone.

Maybe they do have some level of self-awareness after all!

@maddy we are pretty sure they block us preemptively now, which tbh... we are entirely okie with.

Doesn't stop us from banning her tho. She has earned one of our few eternal bans.

@Overgoddess They’ve done the same with me, despite even more claims that they’re better and moving past the drama 🙄

Though, I have the instance they’re currently residing in blocked, so I beat them to it lol

@maddy ha ha ha. We... monitor fediblock even off our instance so they can't hide from us. We seeeeee them.

So that note about lists got edited, and they’ve added a link to their ‘nightshell’ list, which is supposedly a “Server Mute list for Sharkey users”, with zero reasons or proof behind them. I wonder who this list was originally copied from!

The vast majority of these are servers worthy of a block, yes, though there are some interesting additions towards the end of this otherwise alphabetical list.

bardicperspiration.club - Notably, another instance whose moderation got tired of JCs shit and called them out on it. Otherwise, can’t see why a mute would be suggested

vsem.cc - A typo of vsme.cc, the instance that yeeted their hoshiko account after noticing it was added to the JC account list on Pelago.

Very impartial! /sarcasm

Anyway, if you get a request from a strange JC-like entity to become a moderator on your server, you probably shouldn’t trust them. Every time I’ve seen them gain mod or admin powers, they’ve abused it and become some self-important mouthpiece, or to change server settings to benefit themselves somehow (like linking to their own fluxer server on someone else’s instance info page).

Besides all that, I can’t say with any confidence that they’ve gathered up the bulk of these lists or any info about them on their own. They blatantly copy/pasted from Pelago and claimed as their own findings before they were banned from the site.

#JadeChimera

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Gee, that’s a really funny way of saying “Attempting to hold you accountable”. Also, I don’t work for Pelago, I volunteer my time and effort to the site.

You complain about blocklists being biased and blah blah blah, but you’re FAR from any better. You’re just tacking your petty grievances to someone else’s efforts.

#JadeChimera

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@maddy okie wait they blocked our instance ah ha ha ha... "allowing Pelago to do their work."

Nnnno sorry Jade, we verify everyone we ban. But pls do fk all the way off kthx.

@tiefling They’re trying to advertise their blocklist as something that should be taken seriously, which is hilarious

@maddy maybe they should hook up w Linux is Best so they can be irrelevant together? Lol.

@tiefling LOL

If there’s anyone here that I’ve told to spy on this insufferable pest, please feel free to raise your hand.

Otherwise, let’s see your receipts, ‘Fern’.

#JadeChimera

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